11+ cách dạy con của người Mỹ giúp trẻ tự tin, độc lập ngay từ nhỏ

The advantages, habits, and good qualities of current Americans are the results of a good education system from family and school in the process of developing children’s personality. Join Nguyễn Tất Thành to learn 11+ American parenting ways to help children be confident and independent from a young age in the article below.

What are the major differences in the way Americans raise children compared to Vietnam?

The American way of raising children will be a good method that you can apply to help your child develop in such a direction. What are the differences in the American way of raising children compared to Vietnam?

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• Give your children the opportunity to assert themselves: American-style child education methods are full of novelty, parents always focus on stimulating children’s thinking and creativity. From this way of parenting, children in America develop extremely intelligently. Unlike the mentality of Vietnamese parents who always want their children to have good results and evaluate them accordingly, Americans always create opportunities for their children to explore and develop their own abilities, encouraging them to find what they want. do.

• Children are free to explore the world: In American parenting, children are always free to play as they like and are not restricted as much as in Vietnam. In Vietnam, parents limit their children’s physical development more than in many other educational systems to protect their children safely. But this protection unintentionally causes children to be limited in their thinking development in their journey to explore the world.

• Children are trained to be independent from a young age: Western parents attach great importance to training their children to be independent. From personal activities to issues that require self-decision, American parents are all concerned. This not only helps children be proactive in life, but also helps parents have more time for themselves, instead of constantly having to worry about their children like parents in Vietnam.

• Strict punishment but “no whipping”: Americans flexibly apply many different punishments depending on the level of their children’s mistakes, typically letting them sit alone and think about their mistakes, cutting them off. pocket money or not allowing your child to do what he likes. Maintaining a soft but determined and strict attitude when raising children is the secret to American parenting to form good personalities for children. Meanwhile, Vietnamese parents often use spanking to deter their children with the hope of scaring them, but sometimes, this deeply affects the child’s psychology throughout the process of growing up.

Because each place has different customs, cultures and lifestyles, the methods of raising children in the US and Vietnam are not the same, they both have their own advantages and disadvantages. One piece of advice for parents is to combine the two methods, then find out which method is most suitable for your child. Most importantly, give your children the opportunity to develop themselves in the most comprehensive way.

Collection of 11+ American ways to raise children that are of interest to millions of Vietnamese parents

In America – where human rights are valued, children are respected, given special attention and care. Human education is one of the foundations that makes America a great power that always leads the world in many fields. Join Nguyễn Tất Thành to take a look at 11+ American ways to raise children that are of interest to millions of Vietnamese parents.

Ask your child thought-provoking questions

Instead of feeling troubled, imposing or avoiding their children’s countless questions, American parents always ask the opposite questions to stimulate their thinking ability and create conditions for their children to express their opinions. me. Asking appropriate questions at each stage of your child’s development also contributes to fostering and enhancing children’s autonomy in thinking. Besides, questions also help children develop creative thinking, practice acumen, and nurture intelligence in the best way.

Teach children to be assertive

Assertive parenting is one of the most typical American ways of parenting children that we should all learn from. This method requires parents to respect and cooperate with their children, while maintaining control over their children’s choices in important matters.

American parents do not try to force their children to do what they think is best, but rather allow them to make decisions in many different situations. Parents are only guides and contributors to their children. Besides, they will give small rules that need to be followed because they believe that consistency is important for the child to learn responsibility and self-discipline.

Let me be allowed to make mistakes

The current American point of view in raising children is: Children are allowed to make mistakes to learn. Instead of yelling at or criticizing their children, American parents choose to accept their children’s mistakes, then talk and guide them on the right way to do things.

Spend time every day playing and learning with your children

Spending time with children is an important principle in raising children in the American way. With this principle, parents usually spend at least twenty minutes a day talking, playing, and studying with their children. Many studies prove that regular contact with parents helps children increase cognitive abilities and emotional intelligence indicators. Through this educational principle, children also develop many useful habits and knowledge.

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Set an example and persistently explain to children

Americans always value individuality, even the smallest child’s opinion should be respected. Patience is considered an important factor in their parenting methods. When their children are curious and have questions about the life around them, American parents are always patient and ready to answer and guide their children’s questions until they are satisfied. They maintain age-appropriate expectations for their children and focus on the quality of the parent-child relationship more than academic performance. Of course, this respect always goes hand in hand with discipline.

Children often imitate very quickly, so most of them watch adults’ actions to follow. Understanding this, American parents always pay attention to their standard behavior in communication, they often repeat good actions in front of their children and limit bad habits.

Empower your child

In the American way of raising children, parents must always respect their children and they understand that this is how children respect themselves. While most children in countries around the world are still timid and shy when going to school or socializing, on the contrary, American children are very bold and confident. The secret for parents is to “empower” their children, believe in them, encourage them and let them feel these “rights”.

A “good child” is a child who knows how to cooperate

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In American parenting, the concept of a “good child” is not an obedient child but a cooperative child. When children are stubborn and uncooperative, instead of punishing them by threatening, scolding, or accusing them of being naughty, American parents will strictly correct them or rely on their children’s interests to guide them. This way will make children cooperate with parents completely voluntarily and naturally.

Teach children to be independent from a young age

Independence is an extremely important virtue in American parenting. My parents let me sleep separately when I was young. When children are a little older, they are taught self-service skills such as: Getting their own food, drinking milk, playing by themselves, putting things away, and getting up when they fall…

Not only families, teachers in the US also always persistently guide and encourage children to create independent habits until they become proficient. They believe that basic self-service skills will help children increase their independence and sense of responsibility when they grow up.

Reward at the right time and also apply strict punishment

The biggest “taboo” in American parenting is to scold, criticize, threaten or use spanking to punish children. When children make mistakes such as lying, being rude, not eating, lacking discipline… depending on the level, parents will punish them by asking them to sit and think for themselves, cut down on toys, pocket money or related things. regarding children’s interests. Besides, Americans always believe that rewarding children at the right time will help them try harder. In particular, encouraging children at the right time will help them feel more confident in their actions and more motivated to continue to maintain the right actions.

Do not pamper your child

Pampering your children in the name of love is one of the common mistakes of most parents. Invisible parental indulgence will make children weak because they believe that others need to provide everything for them. One of the greatest gifts Americans give their children is allowing them to develop the belief: “I can.” Parents will not do for their children what they are fully capable of. Therefore, I always feel like I can solve everything and not rely on others.

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Important notes when applying American parenting methods

The American way of raising children has many differences compared to the way of educating Vietnamese people. To apply American parenting methods effectively, below are important notes that parents need to know.

• There is agreement: There will be quite a lot of conflicts in the educational style of Americans and Vietnamese (especially the previous generation), so to apply American parenting methods properly, you need to ensure There is unity in educational views among family members. If you and other members behave differently, the method will be difficult to be effective.

• Be flexible in the way you teach your children: Don’t be too “rigid” when applying the above principles to teaching your children. Each child is an independent individual and their living environment is different, so they are suitable for different educational methods.

• Be patient: Don’t expect immediate results because that is impossible regardless of any educational method. Be patient, steady and have confidence in the educational method you have chosen.

With the above 11+ American ways to teach children, Nguyễn Tất Thành hopes that parents will have more good suggestions about scientific education methods on the journey to help their children develop confidently and independently. Don’t miss out on the latest education information by clicking GET UPDATES at the top of the page. Wishing you success!

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